I think my problem is i judge to often based on appearances and dont bother or have no interest in meeting new people.hm..after writing this up, i think i should ask my female friend what she thought of me before we became friends.A beautiful woman, who is financially savvy and strongly opinionated = too perfect.
I have been told on a daily basis that I am beautiful and exotic looking. I rarely talk to a man about things anyways and your advice is most appreciated.
I have been told that I look like a brunette version of Marilyn Monroe and other 50's glamor actresses. I am not conceited but many people have told me that my beauty is rare and exotic. Can you please tell me how to improve or what to do?
A person who finds little joy or merriment in life is not often great company.
If you are that serious, you will want someone who is attracted to serious fellows. Eventually somebody might decide your sober self is just what she's after. I do admit that when I am in public I do not smile a lot. I don't pay attention to my facial expression because before I know it I am analyzing subject matters.
Can it be that the only men who have the confidence to approach you are actually creeps?
One suggestion is you could try a legitimate dating service and specify the kind of gentleman you'd like to meet.
Although this rarely happens, the one loud, crazy chick that we have all met at one time, scares the crap out of guys for some reason.
If it were me, and I saw you and was really into you, I would approach you and anything short of you emasculating me loudly in public would not really deter me from at least trying to get to know you.
Men are strong naturally, but when it comes to women, an inexperienced guy always fears being that dude who is shot down by the beauty in an embarrassing way.
I need to figure out a way that a beautiful woman can signal to us guys that she is safe to approach (I know lol) and that even if she is not interested, she will not go off and embarrass the hell out of us.
That way you could weed out the undesirables and hopefully end up with someone you deem acceptable. i think men may be intimidated by a very attractive woman, but if she shows that she's approachable & not snobby, they relax... btw, do you have any male friends who you can ask about this? People with low self-esteem (apparently, their number is legion) think that a very beautiful person (female OR male) must already have so much attention from equally beautiful people of the opposite gender that there's no point in approaching them.