Sometimes it seems like the universe just likes to laugh at your life.
That's certainly the case when you find yourself attracted to your ex's friend!
It does not mean you are still in love but rather you are witnessing the evidence that your spouse now has someone else in the place you used to fill.
Remembering the negative aspects of your marriage can go a long way in helping alleviate any the unpleasant idea of him/her dating again. I’m sure you’ve heard that saying, “The best revenge is living well.” Well, it’s true!
If you are feeling jealous, the last thing you want is for your ex to know.
So, keep in mind how unique you are and that you will also have someone new to share your life with one day.6. No matter how much conflict you lived through during the divorce process, if you search your heart, you really don’t want your ex to not move forward. Seeing your ex-spouse with someone else can be a shocking experience, but ultimately you will come to accept it, just as your ex will have to adjust to seeing new people in your life.
Concentrate on the good memories you had and the good times to come.
In fact, when we met, my now-partner was on a date with my best friend.
They dated casually for a few weeks before they split up and we got together, and three years later the same friend gave one of the readings at our wedding.
This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.
If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.
They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.