Nothing puts a girl’s libido on pause like an overshare.Because you’re a lesbian, there’s an automatic assumption that you’re cheap. And while there are certain women who’ll need to change panties when you pay for the 0 dinner, for most women it’s the thought that counts.I know it’s hard, but resist the urge to merge for at least a month.
Women are basically the main reason that date night and Valentine’s Day were invented in the first place!
Like the time a girl’s ex showed up and wanted career advice, or when you realized the girl you were dating was emotionally unavailable because she was having an affair with her married friend. For the love of getting laid, stop telling dates about your exes!
You might imagine that dating a new woman will be a lot like starring in your very own girl-on-girl romantic comedy: you’ll be asked out in some quirky yet perfect way, your date will clearly express interest in you and be a master of seduction, and when you finally have sex, it will be like the 4th of July in your pants and Christmas in your heart (or Hanukkah, whatevs). I think we all have our own lesbian dating horror stories that we like to tell our friends as a warning of things to come. If we could just collectively raise the bar a little and invest as much in the art of dating as we do in the art of Facebooking, maybe lesbian courtship could be a brave new world. The revolution won’t come overnight, so let’s start small with some of the main DOs and DONTs.
” Well as it turns out, apparently everyone is better than lesbians.
When she answers, ask follow-up questions that indicate your intent listening and the fact that you have a base line IQ that enables you to respond in an intelligent manner.
If you know what she likes, consider learning a little more about it ahead of time and hint that you did so.
There are oh so many ways that lesbians can have bad boundaries, but right here I want to focus on one: DO NOT bring a date to a girl bar or a girl party.
Your date does not need to meet your ex, or all your friends, the first few times you go out.
And remember, even after you’ve “got her,” you have to keep her.