She tells you she’s past her hookup phase and doesn’t just hook up with guys anymore.An hour later she’s fumbling with your belt buckle to pull down your pants and give you a blow job. But after your best bad boy performance, she’s already texting you a few days later to see when you want to do it again.Guys are going to naturally cycle between wanting intimacy and wanting independence.
A few months later she picks a big blow-up fight because she feels like it isn’t going anywhere.
She tells you she hates people who contradict themselves all the time.
Remember, he has to reach the conclusion Instead, you have to let him naturally get “hungry” again.
That means giving him space, letting him get a little distance from the relationship in order to get perspective on it, and then giving him the room to realize he misses you and wants to be closer to you again.
Men bounce back and forth between close and distant when they’re slowly falling in love because they’re not comfortable with being totally vulnerable.
But little by little, over time, they work out their feelings and start to become more comfortable, and the distance they bounce away becomes less and less. He doesn’t want to make plans this weekend, or he stops being so affectionate with you.The problem is, this reaction almost always pushes him away even further and damages your relationship even more.He’ll realize that you’re different from most other women he’s dated, in a good way, and that will make him think of you more and more as a long term partner he wants to commit to.It’s very easy to feel a sense of anger and neglect when a man pulls away from you – just like it’s easy to feel resentful of him when he comes back.He’s giving you tons of attention, you keep making plans to see each other, he’s keeping in touch on the phone and with texts – in short, things feel perfect. This comes in the form of asking him what’s wrong, or calling him often, and worrying about the relationship.