Lastly, letting a man pursue doesn’t mean waiting around so long that you become impatient and borderline desperate.Or even worse, settle for treatment that is less than what you deserve.Gender roles tell us that men are the ones who should approach you, call you, ask you on a date, follow-up with you, and then ask you out again. But approaching a man, making the first move, flirting with him, or texting him first isn’t the same as . When you meet a man who is interested in dating you he will call you, he will ask you out, and he will take the lead.
Letting a man pursue you doesn’t mean that you can’t let him know that you’re interested.
Give him the green light to proceed and trust that if he likes you, he will.
To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
When you think about letting a man pursue you, consider letting him take the lead when it makes sense for him to do so.
Don’t try to fill in the gaps for where he should be showing interest and isn’t.If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.You’re also telling him that you don’t trust he can, or will pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?They lack the confidence, and they don’t trust the process.