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You cannot change another person based on your actions, no matter how many times they try and make YOU responsible for their behavior, you can only control your reactions to them.
They themselves control their behavior and change can only come from within them.
I found my answer from others who have lived with Narcs longer than even I have, children of narcissistic parents (my heart goes out to you all! And even as I have the strength, empathy, and forgiveness innate to my personality that make me a perfect target, these traits are actually a double edged sword.
Once the Narc no longer can control my emotions, I can use them to cut him down.
I can only conclude from this that he is (of course) feeding off my emotions because he is incapable of producing any real ones of his own. In fact, I am telling him “no” when he asks me to do something he could easily do on his own and calling him out on his crap when he complains that he can’t do something like make a simple phone call because he has to work, and he’s so busy with his job that he just cant do it.
(Never mind that I also work and yet, since I am still at the house most mornings he expects me to do everything for the house as well, and take care of a 14mo old).
Ironically, with my Narc, my using this behavior has resulted in the rather unexpected result of him backing off with the anger and rages.
He seems to be going back to trying to be charming and lure me back in.
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