Being inconsiderate and rude is a sign of immaturity - it shows that he can't really think about anyone other than himself.If your BF does things even though he knows they'll make you upset, or if he is rude to you or your friends, that's just not okay.
You can't have a healthy relationship with two unhealthy people.
When you're trying to use someone to complete you, you're creating an incomplete relationship.
Source: Shutter Stock What does your BF do when you're upset?
If he lets you vent, gives you a hug and tries to calm you down, that's great.
Mature couples don't just accept one another's pasts but want to help heal the wounds.
They look beyond the mistakes and the flaws toward the beauty in the future together.
Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. How can you tell if your relationship is in it for the long haul or the two-month plummet everyone predicted behind your love-obsessed back? Drama is for people who don't know how to have a relationship — who live by idealistic, preconceived notions that love must be wild and obsessive. It's something that happens naturally; it doesn't need to be fought for day in and day out. A mature relationship lives by this peace of mind; immature ones drown in it. It burns dimly when you're together, but you wave it off with sex and constant chatter. The love between the two mature people fills every crack in the fiber of their being they didn't know they had.
Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. First, it should be easy, from the beginning to end. When you love someone, and he or she loves you, and there's no doubt to his or her feelings and no doubt to yours, that's peace of mind. Immature relationships are formed by two incomplete people. They are two people looking for something that can't be found in another person.
There are always going to be people in your life, pasts to each person and surprises behind closed doors.