There's a void in immature relationships, an apparent absence and incessant worry that something's missing. They are comfortable and secure and free of doubt because mature love isn't about all those small questions, but a comfort in knowing the big one is answered.When they have something to work out, they do it face to face — where the meanings can't be misconstrued by emojis and auto correct.
Emotional immaturity can lead to a bad relationship, because chances are, he isn’t going to be able to give you what you want.
If you suspect that your boyfriend may not quite be on your level of maturity, you might be right.
It's about pushing each other to pursue their passions, interests and become the best person possible. It's easy to spend days in bed and weekends in the hazy world of blankets and kisses.
But eventually, that smothering love is replaced with motivated love — a type of love that comes when you want to make a life with someone and work hard to get that life. They never feel that motivation to leave each other only to come back more successful and more determined to make a life for the two of them. Mature couples do not spend their days bickering over a screen.
Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. How can you tell if your relationship is in it for the long haul or the two-month plummet everyone predicted behind your love-obsessed back? Drama is for people who don't know how to have a relationship — who live by idealistic, preconceived notions that love must be wild and obsessive. It's something that happens naturally; it doesn't need to be fought for day in and day out. A mature relationship lives by this peace of mind; immature ones drown in it. It burns dimly when you're together, but you wave it off with sex and constant chatter. The love between the two mature people fills every crack in the fiber of their being they didn't know they had.
Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. First, it should be easy, from the beginning to end. When you love someone, and he or she loves you, and there's no doubt to his or her feelings and no doubt to yours, that's peace of mind. Immature relationships are formed by two incomplete people. They are two people looking for something that can't be found in another person.
Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. They dominate each other, force themselves together and make one flawed mesh of a human. They are two individual people looking to make two better people.
It's the calmest place in your life, the safest blanket you've ever worn. It eats away at you when you go to sleep or leave each other for just a few hours. There is never a feeling that something has been taken away or is leaving with the other person.
When you're in love, things happen at their own pace. Immature couples, however, don't have those feelings, those instincts and those effortless moments.
They make up rules and guidelines and assume time is the only thing that makes or breaks their relationship.
Being inconsiderate and rude is a sign of immaturity - it shows that he can't really think about anyone other than himself.