A look at the world from a sometimes sarcastic, tongue-in-cheek, decidedly American male perspective.Lately, this blog has been mostly about gender issues, dating, marriage, divorce, sex, and parenting via analyzing talk radio, advice columns, news stories, religion, and pop culture in general. and subcultural elements perpetuated by fellow Evangelicals, social conservatives.
None of this is to say single mothers are bad people and certainly not to say all women do the things I listed.
Some do, and men should protect themselves.*Women are “single mothers” for different reasons.
First it will start off with having to pay for babysitters, and then she will want to have “dates” on which the child(ren) will come along.
So not only will you not be getting sex, but you’re going to have to hang out at Chuck E.
Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
That’s bad enough for you, but you should not be a party to putting a child through that.3) Being around the child(ren) exposes you to false charges of abuse.
All it takes is some judge or government official picking YOU to pay for the child’s needs rather than taxpayers.
Finally, if you marry her, you will DEFINITELY be paying more.5) A woman who has given birth can’t ever have a body close to what she had before carrying a child.
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