But when it isn’t happening for some guys, they immediately jump to a devastating conclusion: “There must be something wrong with me.” If you’re a guy who’s suffering from this state of mind right now, I’ve got news for you: Without the right “inner game” attitude (also known as how you feel about yourself on the inside), it’s almost impossible to succeed with women, or anything else in life.
But the good news is that taking just a few simple steps can change everything.
It’s a feedback loop of negativity that starts creating its own negative results in your life…
and then the kind of person they need to “become” to achieve it.
Sounds deceptively simple, but try it…close your eyes and imagine how the version of “you” who’s successful with women be different than the “you” that exists today.
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys? Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission". Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her... When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
Know all about David Deangelo and the Double Your Dating philosophy? Come on in and learn a few more killer dating tips exclusively for men. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants. Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom. This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want. Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to. One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
Once I imagined this version of myself, the “steps” to get there became clearer to me. LEARN HOW TO “TALK TO YOURSELF”There’s an area of psychology commonly called ‘internal dialogue’ or ‘self talk.’ Simply put, it’s the way you sound inside your own head.
And they will for you, too…but again, that’s for LATER. Men whose “inner game” is crippled by fear, shyness, doubt, and insecurity spend a majority of the time talking NEGATIVELY to themselves instead of POSITIVELY.
In my case, a few years back I realized that “Future Me” (that guy who’s finally successful with women) would need a more easygoing attitude and to be more comfortable in his own skin.