You’ll always be secondary in the scheme of things. It has to do with the nature of divorce and the natural consequences of separation.When a man is having marital trauma, his natural instinct is to seek amelioration in the bosom of another woman. He is emotionally needful, lonely, depressed and suffering. And as life often has it, someone will step into that role, providing kindness to him. He starts thinking of the idea of settling down with his good Samaritan.
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It can be a loose term thrown around when someone decides to take a break from marital responsibilities and challenges, but not the fringe benefits (aka sex); it can be interim break taken by two people who agree they aren’t the best fit for one another, or it can be a period of time when a couple commits to working on their issues while taking time apart.
Dating a separated man can be a tough situation at best, and it can be a plain old predicament if you add children into the mix.
But even without make-up baby, the familial pressure will make his decision to leave tougher.
It takes a lot of will and resoluteness to go through divorce in this scenario. Then there are his children (if the marriage produced children).Dear Jil, to be honest with you, you’re in a quandary. If you’re pregnant for him and he returns to his wife, you’ll be holding the very short end of a looong stick. There’s a probability it may lead to marriage, a probability; but there’s also the probability he may return to his wife.He wants you but the cost of leaving his marriage is now high. If the only value in your relationship is good sex, that won’t be enough given the circumstances. And now you see why there are many bitter women associated with separated men who didn’t go through with divorce. If a man hardly spends time with his family though married, there’s a high possibility of a domestic situation. The equitable quantities in his marriage – like his children, as well as social tidiness will reduce the value of the sex. And some actually have no intention to divorce their wives. Sometimes a husband and wife are in a civil separation. That’s not saying things can’t result in marriage with a separated man. It will boil down to sex versus wife, children, social tidiness and accumulated social equity.