They know as a foreigner in Korea you attract a lot of attention and they may assume that you must have many girls chasing you.They will certainly start any relationship with suspicion. Early on, you may find that your new girlfriend will want to check your phone for evidence of you seeing another woman.
Pushing for ‘skinship’ or something more intimate too soon will cause her to doubt your intentions.
If you are a white, young, and somewhat handsome, male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy or womanizer.
If you decline her requests to see your phone, then you are automatically guilty as a womanizer.
Don’t whine about it being your personal privacy, just hand over the damn phone. The act of allowing her access to your phone will go a long way in gaining her trust quickly and destroy her suspicions.
Take her family seriously and respect the rules of her house. Also, if you do meet her family, you’d better dress your best and be prepared to speak some Korean.
Even a few Korean words is enough to help win them over.Every girls hates it when their boyfriend says, “I’m going back home now… Thanks for the year of free sex and being my tour guide. Well, they don’t actually say those words, but the meaning is similar. A Korean woman is very respectful, loyal and obedient to her parents and the parents, in turn, are very protective and meddlesome about their daughter’s personal affairs.Even when a Korean girl is dating a Korean guy, parents have significant power in manipulating her choice of a potential husband. Korean girls seek their parents’ approval and may end up breaking up with a guy if the parents disapprove and tell her to break up.She may be aggressive about this, so be ready to hand over your phone.She wants to check your messages and photos and interrogate you about every female name and photo.The curfew time depends on the woman, but don’t be surprised if you are dating a girl who is 25 and she insists she has to be home by 10pm.